Finding Balance as a Woman: A Journey to a Healthier, Happier Life
- Natasha Harris | Coach
- Oct 31, 2024
- 3 min read

Hey, beautiful sisters! Today, we’re diving into a topic close to my heart—and I think it’s close to yours too: balance! Life is a beautiful, sometimes a little crazy mix of roles and responsibilities, especially as women. We’re wives, moms, friends, professionals, caretakers, daughters, and the list goes on and on and on, right! Some of us juggle these roles all at once, while others are living a unique blend that still feels like a juggler at a circus! Wherever you’re at, know this: YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
As we lean on our faith, we remember that balance isn’t just a productivity hack. It’s about nurturing ourselves, staying connected to God, and ensuring we can pour from a FULL cup and not one that is cruising on "E". Let’s upack a few steps that will have give you tips on how to balance effectively and still pursue who God is calling you to be!
1. Redefine Balance for Yourself
Balance doesn’t mean doing everything perfectly every day; it means aligning your life with what truly matters.
What does balance look like to you, specifically in this season of your life? Maybe it’s more time with family, or perhaps it’s reconnecting with your dreams. God’s purpose for you is unique, and your balance should reflect that.
What are three areas in your life where you feel imbalance? Write these down, pray over them, and let God reveal where adjustments can be made.
2. Set Healthy Boundaries and Keep Them Sacred
Yes, sis! Boundaries are God’s way of protecting what matters most. Remember, even Jesus took time to rest and recharge! So stop trying to take rest off the table!
Are you setting aside time for rest and self-care? How often do you say “yes” to things that drain you rather than fulfill you?
Choose one area of your life where you need to set a boundary this week. It could be saying "no" to an extra project or carving out a quiet time for yourself each morning.
3. Embrace the Power of ‘Good Enough’
Perfection is not the goal, but peace is. (repeat that if you need the reminder!) Embracing “good enough” can free us from stress and make space for God to work in our lives. Let’s lay down the idol of perfectionism and trust God’s grace to fill the gaps.
Are you putting too much pressure on yourself to be perfect? Ask yourself, “What would this look like if it were good enough?”
In one area of your life, aim for “good enough” instead of perfect this week. Notice how it feels to release that pressure.
4. Prioritize Your Relationship with God
At the center of it all, we need His strength, His wisdom, and His peace. Make time each day to connect with God, even if it’s just a few minutes.
What part of your day could you repurpose as intentional time with God? Maybe it’s during your morning coffee or while you’re driving.
This week, schedule a consistent time each day to sit with God, pray, read Scripture, or journal. You’ll be amazed at the peace this simple practice can bring.
5. Celebrate Small Wins and Show Yourself Grace
We are often our own harshest critics, and that has to change! Let’s start celebrating each small step we take toward balance. This journey isn’t about perfection but about progress.
When was the last time you celebrated a win, even a small one?
At the end of each day this week, jot down one small victory. This could be choosing a salad over a slice of pizza, finishing a work project, or spending an hour with your kids. Small steps lead to big changes!
6. Stay Connected in Sisterhood
God never intended for us to walk this journey alone. Surround yourself with other women who lift you up, pray for you, and remind you of God’s promises.
Do you have a circle of women who support and encourage you? If not, don’t be afraid to reach out and start building that support.
Make it a goal to connect with at least one friend this week. Whether it’s a coffee date, a quick phone call, or sending a simple text, let’s prioritize connection.
Share Your Journey in the Comments
As we go on this journey of finding balance together, I’d love to hear from you in the comments!
What does balance look like in this season for you?
Which one of these steps resonates the most?
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This post resonates with me so much! For the longest, I use to believe "multi-tasking" and saying YES to everything was a positive! But boy was I wrong!! :-) For me to be effective in doing what God has called me to do, it is important that I carve out that time for the feeding, nurturing and resting of my spirit! God deserves my best & those I serve deserve it as well! Balance is KEY! #3 was the most eye-opening! As a "perfectionist" I realized that progression is more effective than me waiting for all things to be perfect! I'm not even perfect! I've learned to embrace the "growth" in me & not the "perfect" in me! Perfection is…